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The Argument Under The Argument
A Practical Guide to Understanding What's Really Happening Beneath the Fight
OurMixedPOV
Most arguments are not about the dishes, the tone or the text message. This practical guide teaches couples to hear the argument under the argument: the unspoken need, fear or memory driving the fight. With plain-language prompts and repair scripts, it helps partners slow down mid-conflict, name what is really happening and come back to each other faster.
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RelationshipsConflict ResolutionSelf-Development
About OurMixedPOV
OurMixedPOV is a mixed expat couple — a sassy American and an island Jamaican living in Spain — writing practical, warm-hearted guides on relationships, conflict and growing together on purpose.
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